Stuttering Awareness Week - Adult
Stutterer Decides to Outgrow Stuttering, Just as Many Normal Speakers Do in
Childhood
Stuttering Takeaways -
- Learn to shift your thinking away from fear of stuttering.
- Become more tolerant of your speaking difficulties, like normal speakers.
- Learn to be more resilient to listener reactions.
A stutterer can learn to reduce their awareness of their
speech to a level more near that of normal speakers.
I can speak with authority, because
I have stuttered since childhood. Today I have 80% fluency, and am very happy
about that.
To begin, the stutterer can consider
the following:
- Everyone stutters to some extent, but it does not bother him or her. Here is the big difference.
- Stutterers are deeply troubled with all speech difficulties. Stutterers ruminate about past stuttering events. Stutterers fear future speaking situations.
- Stutterers think about their speech much more than normal speakers.
- Stutterers watch for listener reactions much more than normal speakers.
I went to many speech therapists in
my life. I also learned self-help techniques. What helped me the most, however,
was realizing that my stuttering was a symptom of thinking and emotional
troubles.
Here is what has helped me.
- I took ownership of how my body and mind works.I worked on my troublesome personality traits, such as:
- Perfectionistic
- Overly sensitive
- Overly reactive
- Low self-esteem and confidence
- I learned assertiveness skills.
- I learned about the various stuttering therapy techniques. I picked a few of these tools to get through stuttering situations the easiest.
When I changed my irrational
thinking, my stuttering improved, as well as many of my other life situations.
For much of my life, I could not
even say my own name without contortions. I squeezed out each word. I got tired
of that, especially as an adult. I decided to grow out of stuttering, just as
many normal speakers do in childhood.
If I could improve my stuttering by
80%, you can too.
For more information -
- International Stuttering Awareness Day - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Stuttering_Awareness_Day
- A CHECKLIST OF STUTTERING AND NORMAL DYSFLUENCY - www.kslc.net/resources/comm_connection/stuttering_checklist.pdf
- Counseling Skills for Speech-Language Pathologists and Audiologists By Lydia V. Flasher, Paul T Fogle - see section Stuttering and Fluency Disorders
- Van Riper - Study Guide - Veils of Stuttering - Desensitization - www.veilsofstuttering.com/documents/vriper.htm
- Stuttering Modification Therapy - www.mnsu.edu/comdis/kuster/journal/osborne3/vanriper.ppt
Disclaimer - Article is for information only and is not medical advice.
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